Thursday, March 5, 2009

fear 163 days

The problems of my former life of drinking keep popping up. My wife still has a lot of fear about me and us. I know it has only been a week and a half of living together but fear will destroy all. I have learned this the hard way, i want this to work and she says she does too. She says that she is happy but full of fear. She says i need to stay consistent and that's what I'm doing. For now it's back to work.

I still have hope for us.

3 comments:

Syd said...

One day at a time. Her fear is about her and something that she needs to address. Has she tried Al-Anon?

Banana Girl said...

Al Anon, Al anon, Al anon. Tell her about it. give her the choice. Go with her. Bring her to a meeting. Share your recovery. Give her hope. J.

Shadow said...

fear's a bugger. it creeps in and tends to not want to let go. maybe she should confront and face her fears too by talking to someone about them to help her through them, or joining al-anon or something??? wishing you both the very very best!